Learning To Love Yourself

Learning To Love Yourself

Hey guys ! How have you been?

This topic has been stuck on my mind these last few days. You guys know I love fashion and beauty but my ultimate goal with my blog is to promote self- love. Loving yourself is so important and it is something that everyone should have.

Sometimes we go through rough patches in life and we forget that to take care of ourselves and our feelings. Many times the lack of self- love is due to one not having self -esteem. That confidence can get you through so much because you know that you are worth more. I’m no therapist but I am going to give you guys a few quotes and pointers that you can use to build up your self-esteem and self-love.

Self Love-

Regard for one's own well-being and happiness (chiefly considered as a desirable rather than narcissistic characteristic). via Google.

Self- Esteem

Reflects a person's overall subjective emotional evaluation of his or her own worth. It is a judgment of oneself as well as an attitude toward the self. via Google.

The only person on earth that should be in control of your happiness is YOU and YOU only!! Don't even give anyone the satisfaction of knowing they ruined your day. Always have good vibes if you feel some negativity get that person out your circle quick!!

These days everyone is so tied up on looking like celebrities and the flawless girls on social media. Trust me guys they do not wake up like that and even those beautiful girls have insecurities YOU ARE NOT ALONE! You are beautiful and don't get caught up on what society perceives as "beautiful" and the "perfect body". If you are unhappy and want to make changes do it because you want to not because you want to be like someone else.

Loving yourself is so important and if you don't it can effect so much in life. You don't want to put a hold on your dreams and goals because you don't love yourself. Once you find that inner love everything else works as it should.

Enjoy life and take it easy! Be yourself ! People that really care about you will accept you all in all and will love you for who you are. Don't be afraid to be you.

Most importantly before you can get into any relationship you have to know your worth first because if you don't you will attract others that see your weakness. It is easy to sense insecurities and even a person with confidence. People will only do what you allow them to do.

I really hope you guys enjoyed this post and it helped some of you. If you want to advice or just to say hi you can shoot me an email styledbybrigethia@gmail.com. Also, if you have ideas on things you'd like me to discuss you can email me as well.


Brigethia Arai



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